Small Group Questions

1. Read Genesis 2:18 and Psalm 121:1-2. How does knowing that ezer is a word used for God himself change how you think about being a “helper”? 

2. Why is “you complete me” a dangerous idea for a marriage? What happens when we expect a person to fill what only God can fill? 

3. Pastor Jason said, “Love can carry a couple for a season. Shared direction carries us through a lifetime.” What does it look like for a couple to grow toward the same light? 

4. Passivity sounds like “I’m too tired,” “It’s not worth the fight,” or “We’ll talk about it later.” Where are you most tempted to choose not to choose? 

5. Trust = Safety + Belonging + Mattering. Which one is easiest for you to give? Which one is hardest? 

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