Small Group Questions

1. The medical community rejected Ignaz Semmelweis’ germ theory, which led to delayed healing for others. Is there a time when fear of how someone would respond caused you to hold back something true or helpful? What did that cost you - or them?  

2. Peter denied Jesus not because he stopped believing, but because he feared disapproval. In what areas of your life do you find yourself most tempted to people-please or hide who you are? What does that reveal about where you're seeking approval?  

3. Rejection feels true because it echoes the accuser's voice, aligns with our fallen self-perception, and is reinforced by real experiences. Which of these three reasons resonates most with you personally - and why does that lie feel so convincing?  

4. Jesus didn't just tell Peter he was forgiven - He returned to the place and sensory details of the failure to redeem it. Have you experienced God meeting you in a specific place of failure or shame rather than bypassing it? What was that like?  

5. The closing challenge is a choice: whose voice will define you - what others say, or what God says? What is one specific lie that rejection has planted in you, and what does Scripture say in response to it? How can this group help you rehearse that truth? 

FEAR: He is a Liar
Fear of Rejection